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Securing Your Legacy: How Marital Estate Rights and Divorce Impact Your Estate Plan

November 25, 2024

William S. Durr, Melody J. King, and Zachary F. Lamb

Ward and Smith, P.A.

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Once married, spouses acquire a number of rights in and to the estate of the other spouse. 

Marital estate rights create the potential for catastrophic consequences should a spouse pass away at a time when the parties are physically separated but have not yet signed a separation agreement or been granted a divorce. These rights also create impediments if a spouse desires to leave all or part of their estate to someone other than their spouse.

This article explores North Carolina's statutory marital estate rights and discusses the means available to limit or waive these rights entirely.

The marital estate rights guaranteed to a surviving spouse are granted by statute. These rights include:

When spouses separate with the intent to divorce, generally, there is no impact on marital estate rights. However, N.C. Gen. Stat. § 31A-1 sets out the following events which will extinguish these rights:

In these instances, pursuant to N.C. Gen. Stat. § 31A-1, the surviving spouse will lose the marital estate rights identified above. Nonetheless, reliance on this statute is risky as the circumstances supporting these defenses are fact-specific and can prove costly to litigate.

Life Insurance, Retirement Account, and Payable on Death Beneficiary Designations.

Beneficiary designations on life insurance policies, retirement accounts, and pay-on-death accounts will not be impacted by any of the above scenarios, separation, or even the entry of a divorce decree – the exceptions being (1) the existence of a separation agreement or premarital agreement providing a waiver of any beneficiary designations in the event the spouses are separated and/or divorced or (2) by court order specifically and expressly waiving the surviving spouses rights to such assets. It is important to discuss with your family law attorney the possibility of removing your spouse as a beneficiary on these policies as soon as possible. However, some policies, including retirement accounts governed by ERISA, will not allow you to remove your spouse as a beneficiary during the separation period and before a divorce decree is entered without the consent of your spouse, a separation agreement or premarital agreement, or court order.

Considerations for Blended Families

Many of our clients have children from a prior relationship and are now remarried or anticipating marriage. We refer to these families as "blended families." We often see spouses in a blended family situation desire to leave at least some of their assets to their children from a prior relationship, rather than their new spouse. This especially holds true for a spouse's separate property acquired prior to the new marriage. "Separate property" in a family law/divorce context includes all real and personal property acquired by a spouse before the marriage or acquired by gift or inheritance during the marriage.

Importantly, the value of the decedent's entire estate will be considered in calculating the amount of a surviving spouse's intestate inheritance or elective share. This includes a spouse's separate property. Imagine a situation where you have generational family land (or a family business) that you owned prior to the existing marriage and that you want to pass down to your children. You probably wouldn't want the family land considered in determining your new spouse's rights to your estate, even if you are happily married at the date of death.

But not so fast…In order to effectively be able to leave your assets to your children (or any other third party such as a parent, sibling, or charitable organization) without any encumbrance from your spouse, your spouse must waive their statutorily granted rights to your estate. This can be done through several mechanisms. 

Proactive Steps to Protect Your Assets

Should a spouse desire to leave a part of their estate to someone other than their surviving spouse and not want to risk the statutory marital estate rights from upsetting their estate plan, then there are a few strategies that can achieve their goals:

Conclusion

It is important to understand that unless additional steps are taken, outside of and in addition to the preparation of a Will, a surviving spouse will likely have rights to your estate, including your separate property, regardless of whether you are separated at the time of death.

Anyone who is contemplating marriage or already married, and who wants to control who receives their assets upon their death, should understand that North Carolina gives a surviving spouse certain rights that could upset those plans. These issues should be discussed at length with your estate planning attorney, and, for the reasons discussed in this article, a family law attorney may likely be a crucial member of your team. Ward and Smith has experienced and dedicated attorneys in our estate planning and family law practice groups offering comprehensive legal services and expertise to ensure that strategies are implemented that give a spouse assurance that their goals will be achieved and their wishes implemented.